A science-backed story about helping children tame big emotions—one pause at a time.
Deep inside a big jungle, there lived a lion cub fondly called Rex. He was chubby, cute, loved, and pampered by all. He had a big group of friends that included a worm, a bird, a snake, a tiger, a fox, and many others. Rex was a hero among them; whatever he said was like a motto for his friends. Everything about him was so wonderful that everyone adored him—even the older animals could not resist his charm.
But he had one flaw. Rex always wanted to be perfect and could not bear a single moment of imperfection.
Whenever he felt overwhelmed—by frustration, disappointment, or anger—a loud roar would escape him before he could stop it. Each roar caused him to knock over things, making him even more upset. This troubled everyone who cared about him, especially his parents.
One day, Rex went to school. Today was the drawing competition! He loved drawing and was very excited. He packed his backpack, carefully choosing his favorite crayons, his best pencils, an eraser, his lunchbox, and his water bottle. That morning, he woke up extra early, got ready with his backpack, and waited eagerly for his father to drop him off.
After he arrived at school, the competition started. The teacher asked the class to draw a picture of a happy Earth. Rex started making a circle. He wanted a perfect circle. But somehow, he just was not able to get it right. He drew, erased, drew again, and erased again. He was getting agitated and frustrated.
His friends noticed him and knew exactly what was coming.
Suddenly, a massive roar erupted—so big that it almost shook everyone’s hands! It was Rex. He had lost his cool. Rex roared so loud that he knocked over his crayons and crumpled his paper, which made him even more upset. He could not complete his drawing, and it made him very sad.
Just then, his teacher, Mr. Elle the elephant, gently knelt beside him. “When that big upset feeling comes,” he said, “it chases away your thinking brain — and out comes the roar.”
Rex understood that this was his flaw, and he really wanted to correct it. He looked up and asked, ”Tell me, Mr. Elle. How can I be better?”
Mr. Elle smiled gently. “Why don’t you press your pause button when you get frustrated or angry?”
“Pause button? Do I have one?” Rex asked.
“Yes, you do. In fact, we all do,” said Mr. Elle.
Curious now, Rex asked, “Please tell me more! How do I use it?”
“Well, it’s right there on your forehead,” Mr. Elle explained. “And to operate it, you really have to do nothing but close your eyes, take a gulp, and take a slow, deep breath.”
“It’s that easy?” asked Rex.
“Yes, it is that easy. But it needs practice and your focus,” said Mr. Elle.
From that day on, Rex started to practice pressing his magic button. It was not always easy at first.
A few days later, Rex was building a giant tower out of wooden blocks. He carefully placed the very last block on top, but his paw slipped, and CRASH! The whole tower tumbled down. Rex felt his chest get tight. He felt the mighty roar rising in his throat. But he remembered Mr. Elle’s advice. He stopped, touched his forehead and pressed his Magic Pause Button. He closed his eyes. Gulp. One slow breath in, one slow breath out. The roar melted away. Instead of yelling, Rex smiled — and started building an even bigger tower.
The next week, Rex was racing with his friend, the tiger. Rex tripped over a root and fell behind, losing the race. The frustration bubbled up again. His paws balled into fists. The roar was ready to burst out. But once again, he stopped. He pressed his Magic Pause Button. Gulp. Deep breath in. Slow breath out. His thinking brain came back online. He gave his friend a high-five and said, “Good race! Let’s play again.”
Every time Rex used his button, it got easier. His brain grew stronger and more patient.
The next time Rex sat down to draw, his crayon slipped and smudged right across the paper. He felt the old, familiar heat rise in his chest — but this time, he barely needed to think about it. He closed his eyes. Gulp. One slow breath. Then he opened his eyes, looked at the smudge, and turned it into a cloud. He kept going, line by line, until his circle was finished. It wasn’t perfect — a little wobbly in one spot — but it was his, and for the first time, that felt like enough.
Because he learned to tame his big roar, Rex grew up to be a wise and gentle King Lion, ruling the whole jungle with patience, love, and compassion.
Parent’s Corner: The Science Behind the Story
In the story, the “Magic Pause Button” is a child-friendly metaphor. In reality, it represents engaging the prefrontal cortex—the brain’s “thinking centre.” By pairing a physical cue (touching the forehead) with slow breathing, children learn to pause before reacting, giving their thinking brain time to catch up with their emotions
This story introduces children to the biological mechanics of emotional regulation and impulse control. When a child experiences sudden frustration—like Rex trying to draw a perfect circle—their brain’s emotional center, the amygdala, takes over. This triggers a “fight or flight” response, which in young children often looks like a loud roar, a meltdown, or throwing objects.
The story provides a tangible solution by introducing the “Magic Pause Button,” which represents the prefrontal cortex—the area of the brain located right behind the forehead responsible for logical thinking and impulse control.
When you teach a child to press their pause button, take a gulp, and take a deep breath, you are helping them physically stimulate their vagus nerve. This instantly signals the nervous system to calm down, shifting control away from the panicked amygdala and back to the logical prefrontal cortex. Because young brains are highly plastic, every time a child successfully practices this pause, they are literally building thicker, faster neural pathways for patience.
Rex’s Magic Pause Button Rhyme
When the roar begins to rise,
I just pause and close my eyes.
Press the button on my head,
Remembering what my teacher said.
Take a gulp and breathe in deep,
Put the angry roar to sleep.
Breathe out slow and let it go,
Now my thinking brain can grow!
Teaching Questionnaire: Storytime Discussion Guide
Use these questions after reading to help your child map Rex’s experience onto their own big emotions:
- What made Rex let out his big roar during the drawing competition? (Goal: Help the child identify that frustration often comes from wanting things to be perfect and not knowing how to fix a mistake.)
- When Rex roared and knocked over his crayons, did it fix his drawing or make him feel worse? (Goal: Teach cause-and-effect regarding tantrums, showing that losing control usually creates a bigger problem.)
- Where did Mr. Elle say the Magic Pause Button is located? Can you point to yours? (Goal: Create a physical, tactile connection to the prefrontal cortex right behind their forehead.)
- What are the three steps to operating the pause button? (Goal: Memorize the biological calming sequence: close eyes, take a gulp, take a slow, deep breath.)
- Can you remember a time when you felt a “roar” stuck in your throat? What can you do next time it happens? (Goal: Encourage real-world application so they are prepared to use their pause button during their next moment of frustration.)
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